On the first few dates you step out on, if you don’t know your date well there are probably specific things you have in mind that you’re hoping to learn about him by the end of the night. At this stage you’re still measuring each other up, still trying to figure out whether there could be a relationship here worth pursuing. It doesn’t sound very romantic, I know, the idea of approaching a date with that kind of goal. But the truth is there’s nothing wrong with this. It makes sense to want to know early on what you’re getting into. And let’s face it.









