I think everyone has had the feeling of re-living the same day, of that spark missing, when all the passion in the couple is gone together with the impulse to surprise each other's mornings. Coult it be a way to stop burning passion of fresh love turn into exhausting and suffocating routine?
Love is felt differently by each of us. Feeling in love causes different chills as well as its loss can lead to diverse attitudes. On the other hand, it is universally admitted that routine, the fearful enemy of a couple is clearly incompatible with love life. We put the euphoric sensations at the beginning of a relationship on the novelty of the encounter, of the two sharing their innermost burning emotions on different situations of life that bring them together.It's the willingness to prove the best of your spiritual magnetism, the desire to innovate, the strong impulse to conquer your lover's heart and then to fly as high as your love angel dares you to.
"They love eachother like the first time they met"-we hear that a lot about old couples still kissing, laughing at each other's jokes, holding each other's hands even after 30 years of being together. The expression, though, does not contain the truth but the ideal, the desirable. Just like everything in this transient world, love and its passion have a beginning and an end. What stands to face the time is composed of respect, tenderness, patience, understanding, caring and tolerance , common ideals in life and ...sweet routines.
Indeed, after 5 or 10 years you finally get to realise that love means so much more than it used to "at the beginning". Even "love at first sight" seems to lose its sense and genuiness. When routine becomes an unwelcome but ever present guest in a couple relationship, only communication and tolerance can open the doors towards a different, more mature love, an kind of love that is infinitely more than physical attraction, a sweet love and a perfect and everlasting incredible match with your soul-mate.
Some agree that routine in a couple starts from the way they imagine to express their sexuality through time. But what could be the methods to relight that passion flame and thus avoid the routine? Spontaneity, surprise, enjoying special moments in a special place together, like dinner in a fine restaurant or leaving your kids with the nanny and start a romantic journey through the places you first felt that passion burn and where you first fell in love.Put on a sexy , elegant suit or dress, take initiative and offer your sweetheart a gift without special reason. Let your imagination fly in the bedroom. What is certain is that there are ways when there's a will to break the routine and relive the passion. And guess what? Saint Valentine's Day might be the day. It gives you a chance to win it all back.

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