It is difficult to keep love out from your life when Cupid’s determined, and if it’s the workplace that’s the scene of action, then…well, you may be in for a bit of trouble. Or a lot of trouble.

Chemistry happens everywhere. If you are working long hours, you may be specially susceptible to falling to the charms of a charismatic colleague. But do pause before you take the plunge. Is it just boredom that makes you long for a bit of romance, or are you craving for a little bit of excitement and daredevilry? Is the physical proximity to a colleague with whom you are closely co-ordinating on a project drawing you towards him or her? Or is it the conquering instinct in you that wants to prey on the prize catch in the office? If any of these reasons apply to a relationship you are thinking of starting, stop right there.

Conventional wisdom tells us that love at the workplace is a bad idea, and there is a great degree of truth to it. No matter how glamorized it may be in the movies, the fact that a workplace romance can turn into a hellish experience is something we all have heard, and most of us have seen someone close to us go through. Yet, the hectic lifestyles we have today make it seem like the only option we have to bring a little romance into our lives.

Of course, there are many cases in which it all works out for the best and it would be a pity not to give yourself a chance at real love just because of the possible aftermath. So what do you do? It is a tough situation you find yourself in. But if you set a few ground rules, you can minimise the ill-effects. Whatever you do, maintain a professional relationship in the office. Displaying too much affection in front of your colleagues or living in each other’s pockets can be embarrassing for them. Do not compromise on work or take advantage of each other’s position in the office. If you happen to be in love with your boss, make sure you give no reason to your colleagues for ill-natured gossip. That way you avoid yourself much humiliation and insult in case things don’t work out between the two of you.

And finally, if it’s going to be a long term relationship, as we hope it would be, it may be a good idea for one of you to transfer yourself to a different branch, or find a new job. A better one, of course.

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